bfyi: i tend to be dry / cold with strangers, that's just how i am. i don't like speaking with people that i don't already know and i'm not looking for new friends at the moment, sorry. i struggle to read other people's tones over text and have absolutely zero tolerance for passive aggressiveness / shade. if you have an issue and aren't mature enough to tell me outright, that's a you problem and i will confront you. i say slurs i can reclaim. if that's an issue then just don't interact. i tend to have the fawn response when i am uncomfortable in the moment, i'm working on that. i dislike clingy people if we haven't been friends for more than a day or two, it's weird. i am friendly once you get to know me, though, but just be aware that i am very selective with who i let in my circle. i have little to no empathy if we aren't close so don't trauma dump or vent, i don't care. oh yeah and i got diagnosed with autism recently so there's that.

dni:

• weebs / otakus (i've encountered too many weirdos)
• problematic media supporters
• under 16 unless i already know you
• #those selfshippers
• mizitill, ivansua, any of that nonsense
• helluva boss / hazbin hotel fans. i will genuinely skin you
• basic dni (racist, transphobic, etc)
• people who try too hard to be nonchalant / edgy. i thought we left this in 2023 cmon guys

extremely thin ice:

• fans of problematic media