BYI ⁽¹⁾ obligatory did, audhd, + bpd affect how i interact with others and perceive the world around me. my social battery is chronically low, and i have a tendency to ghost/remove myself from people + situations that bother me without saying anything. ⁽²⁾ i have awful memory, so i may need to be reminded about things multiple times.
i have a big kinlist + i selfship with varka (genshin). i don't believe in doubles or being (fully) non-sharing because everyone + their interpretations of the media they consume are different. i also only really selfship for fun, i'm fully aware that varka is a fictional character.
spiritual but not religious. i generally steer away from anyone who actively attends organized religious meetings/groups for my own comfort. i believe that spirituality is almost solely for self-betterment, and i strongly dislike religious bigots or those who try to convert you to their beliefs.
BOUNDARIES random dms are okay (as long as you state your purpose in your first message), keep pings on or else i'll miss your message. erm... random friend requests will get you blocked! #Paranoia i don't need tonetags; i'll ask for clarification instead. if you need me to use them for you, tell me! i don't use them by default. minors - please don't dm me if you can help it. do not talk to me about child or animal neglect/abuse, i will block you.
any of my layouts are free to take heavy inspo off of, just leave creds somewhere and send me the link so i can see!! i love looking at how creative others are with their slugs!
DISCOURSE i will give side eyes + judge you if you're weird, but i don't go out of my way to harass anyone with a differing opinion/interest. i overall believe that censorship is bad and that people are allowed to explore taboo topics in fictional scenarios. the same goes for shipping discourse. obviously, this is all nuanced as hell, so i take it on a case-by-case basis, + i prefer to discuss my full opinions with people who understand that enjoying medias making light of abuse, even through fiction, is something that most will find offputting.
- i do not like people who think that they are superior for engaging with "dark" or "problematic" media, or those who think that others don't interact with said medias because they are too "sensitive" or aren't mature enough. i also actively avoid those who are cruel or belittling, and people who are nonchalant, chronically apathetic, and/or "edgy".
basically my entire stance on this shit is this image summed up:
if you read all of this... have a cookie 🍪
obviously, anything here is subject to change. if you have questions about anything on here, send me an ask on my tetratto!