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inferno byi / boundaries page

boundaries

• do NOT call me by she / her. i will take it to heart and block you if done purposefully / repeatedly.
• if youre intentionally rude to my husband , i will block you.
  
  • actually , if youre rude to any of my headmates in general , youll be blocked too !! also , if you see me ranting about how i dont like some of them , plzzz dont butt in and say "yeah they suck lol" or anything of the sort because at the end of the day , it rlly isnt any of your business and you shouldnt try to involve yourself in our internal struggles ok?
• if you have a problem with me , just block me / tell me directly why youre upset instead of vagueposting about me because this has happened SO many times and it triggers my paranoia and literally NOTHING gets solved. like. im actually begging you. i am 100% fine with talking things out AND i forgive people easily.
• on the same note , if you dont like me , please stop pretending to be my friend and just FUCKING BLOCK MEE 🥹🥹 i would rather you be honest than continue to lie in my face
• im not looking for close friendships — only casual , strictly online ones
• i thrive in larger social enviornments rather than smaller ones so plz limit frequent 1 to 1 interactions
• if you are a proshipper / profic , radqueer , map , lolicon / shotacon / ect , someone who has shown repeated weird / predatory behavior towards minors , or anything of the like , you will be blocked ; dont initiate contact with me ever.
• dont force your religion onto me ; im not planning on converting to anything and trying to get me to do so will push me further from it.
• please dont vent to me 🥹 im not equipped to handle peoples personal struggles and i genuinely cannot comfort you , even if i wanted to
• dont talk to me about mlp ok? it makes me super uncomfortable and i refuse to associate with the show or any of its content

byi

• i lash out if threatened
• i struggle with guilt , remorse , and empathy and would prefer if i WERENT demonized over that. im trying to work on it as much as i can in the moment
• i cant read tone / intent well ; plz be direct with me
• im VERY stubborn. like this isnt an over exaggeration
• im bad at conveying my tone and because of this , sometimes use tonetags to avoid people misinterpreting me. if youre uncomfortable w tonetag usage PLZ just tell me.
• im extremely source attached and dont want to be separated at all. i exclusively refer to my main source in 1st person outside of fandom spaces.
• i can get rude / mean but im trying to avoid it from happening as much as i can ,, unfortunately its mainly a subconscious behavior so i usually dont realize it until someone tells me.
• i struggle with amnesia and that especially affects the way i interact with people ; plz dont take it to heart if i dont remember you or cant tell who you are on anon its not because i dont like you
• im very insecure and subconsiously tend to show a bunch of attention seeking behaviors. i wouldnt recommend feeding into it BUT dont take that as a green light to make fun of me plz and ty
• my szpd tends to make my emotions shallower so i exaggerate them / mask ; if i sound ingenuine , thats probably why.
• i dont make kys jokes ( though im fine with them ) but i do make kms / suicide jokes. if this makes you uncomfortable , plz lmk ok?
• i think most forms of internet discourse are kind of stupid but sometimes i engage if i believe a party is genuinely harmful. to sum up my stances , im anti proship , anti radqueer ( like previously mentioned ) , anti endo , anti tcc , among some other stuff. i also think sort of debate around harmless queer identities like lesboys or xenogenders is genuinely ridiculous please get a life and stop fuming over a teenager online going by vamp / vampself or something
  
  • plz plz plz dont randomly start talking to me about discourse unless we're friends , its important , or i recently mentioned anything related to these topics 🥹🥹 if you try to defend any of the groups above that i mentioned im against im just gonna straight up block you

fluffle related

• a lot of my urls are undecorated because i procrastinate way too much ,,
• im trying to give away all of the urls i own that i dont plan on using
• PLZ dont copy my fluffles / steal my graphics. inspo is fine but ask 4 heavy inspo
  
  • also , ask permission before taking my code / metadata / ect plz and ty ^^
• a majority of my pages arent mobile optimized 😓 i make all of my pastes on my ipad and theyre formatted for specifically bigger screens
  
  • i cant tell you what they look like on computer but i assume they appear normal?