ok hi uhm ill pretty this up later but hi here's our byf/dni/whatever idk

keep in mind: we tend to use slurs (faggot and tranny) that we can reclaim but never towards others unless youre SUPER close and explicitly say youre okay with it. we don't want to be the guy who uses its mental stuff as an excuse for anything but Seriously sometimes we can come off as rude and dont intend to!! yes even if it "should be obvious" that something came off a certain way, please just ask for clarification and we will be more than happy to fix the statement and apologize. we use i/me and we/us pretty interchangeably at times so also dont mind that

dni? well ysee: honestly we dont expect anyone to like. Always Know Our Exact Boundaries yk and like i just feel weird setting super strict rules about who's "allowed" to interact with me besides the basics (bigots, zionist, doesnt consume media critically, etc) but like even then Will They Really Listen. Do I seriously think a bigoted asshole is gonna see this and go "oh damn guess i gotta go then" 😭 BUT LIKE BASICALLY JUST. we block freely and unless you're genuinely a bad person (see mentioned above criteria) it's usually just based on comfort and is Not Personal. on that note, though, here's a very general and probably not all-encompassing guide to generally what we block (again, regarding like Just Regular Things not. bigotry and shit)

• i was gonna just mention kpop here but honestly if you do like. solely real people fanfic and such that's a block from me. to clarify im fine with kpop stans but like if all you post about is obsessing and reading into the details of real people's personal lives it just isnt something we want to interact with. that's not to say all kpop fans do that nor to say that all rpf is inherently bad. im no moral authority on anything and like a lot of it just has to do with boundaries the person has, whether you responsibly tag it, etcetc.
• uuhhh if you post about discourse or politics a lot. i get spreading awareness of things and all but like sorry if your whole acc is dedicated to discourse/politics its just Not Worth The Stress for us... we ourselves post political things occasionally ("political" meaning nine times out of ten a post that's essentially me going "this shit ass system fucking sucks") so like idc if you do that just no ENTIRELY politics centered accs yk?
• kind of an add-on to the above bc i said discourse and politics but mainly talked about politics so lemme elaborate on the discourse stuff. if you post about like, internet discourse/syscourse in general i will just block u bro its so tiring. unless you're calling out someone/something that is legitimately harmful/dangerous, its just. how else can i explain this other than js. no idgaf if someone& says they're whateverthefuckgenic. no idgaf if someone draws/writes mature content as long as it's handled well, not romanticized, and tagged appropriately so i dont see it. i truly do not give a fuck about someone doing something that does not harm themself or anyone else and doesn't promote/spread harmful ideology.
• • At the same time, don't think that means im someone who thinks everyone should be able to do anything ever with no consequences #ok? being a creep is obviously bad and all that. i just think there are better uses of time than arguing whether a random pinterest user is valid for using xyz label with abc label or whatever
• hi this is a crow-specific one but! as a general rule if you post ship stuff of my spouse's source (Nikto, CoD) i will block ^^; no hard feelings it just irks me and yeah. i do also selfship a little (previously was more involved in calling it yumeing buuut im more casual/less attached to most now) but unless stated otherwise idrc if you selfship with the same folks i think. also just to clear up any confusion in case: nik and i are Actually Together. like. we are headmates and dating. do not refer to us as a yumeship #ok? ok

i ttthink thats. it... improbably forgetting thingfs oops. ill update this if i do but erm anyways !! back to main fluffle or back to simple fluffle. or, alternatively, back to tetratto?